LIVE LIKE A KING!
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LIVE LIKE A KING!

 

As we all pass through life looking at people and materialistic things around us, we often tend to look at people above us and desire to be like them in worldly gains. This is better known as discontentment with what we already have-a quality which dominates the life of almost every human being today.

 But Islam advises us to look at those below us and show gratitude at what Allah Ta’ala has given us. Listed below would be some practical suggestions on achieving this contentment and repelling the greed of want of more.

Note: Contentment is the neuro-physiological experience of satisfaction and being at ease in one's situation. It is said that a man complained about his old shoes until he saw a man who had no feet.

"Contentment is not the fulfillment of what you want, but the realization of how much you already have."

Greed for More: A Fact of Human Nature

Contentment is one of the most important prerequisites for happiness in life, and, unfortunately, many of us don't have it. We have a good car that meets our needs, but we always want a nicer, more expensive one - a Mercedes or a Jaguar perhaps. We have a nice house, but we always want a bigger, fancier, more expensive one. More jewellery, fancier clothes, a boat. The list goes on. We always think about more rather than saying, "Alhamdulillah," for what we already have.

The Prophet Sallallaahu Alaihi Wa Sallam prescribed a remedy for discontentment when he advised us with the words "Remember death repeatedly. This will save you from longing for the worldly pleasures. Show gratitude frequently and this will increase the graces upon you. Pray to Allah Ta’ala so recurrently, because you do not know in which time Allah Ta’ala will respond for your prayer. Beware of tyranny, for Allah Ta’ala has ordained that HE will support those whom are oppressed."

And then the Prophet Sallallaahu Alaihi Wa Sallam also gave us an insight of the nature of man when He said "If a son of Adam (as) possessed a valley of gold, he would wish for a second valley of gold and nothing will fill him up except the sand of his grave."

The world is like water of the sea, the man who is thirsty, the more he drinks water of it the more he becomes thirsty, until the water kills him in the end!"

Things that drive away Contentment

A good rule for developing contentment is to always look at the people who have less than us, not the ones who have more. In the times we live in full out marketing of goods and gadgets makes imbibing the quality of contentment even more difficult. In fact, almost all advertising is geared toward showing us people who have more than us and enticing us to want it. They show us beautiful cars, beautiful houses, handsome men, and beautiful women. And we can get it all with a credit card. If our lives don't match the ad, we should make a change - buy a new car, get a new wife, give her a bigger diamond!

We should always remember that no matter what we cannot spoil what we have by desiring what we do not have; remember that what we have now was once among the things we only hoped for.

Muslims Falling Prey to Materialism

Despite countless warnings in Qur’aan and Hadeeth, sadly even Muslims have fallen into this trap. Many drive expensive cars far beyond their needs, not just for dependability, but for prestige or to make people say, "Wow!" These Muslims have been deceived, duped by the multi-billion dollar advertising industry - the chief enemy of contentment, the chief advocate of a lifestyle of constant wanting.

Many children are the same. They have grown up surrounded by advertisements on Television and other forms of media, on the radio, and on billboards. They want everything they see, and they expect to get it now! But how can we teach them to be content, if we are not content ourselves? Instead of wanting everything we see, we need to learn to resist. Instead of letting our children have everything they want, we need to teach them to be thankful for what they have. We need to inculcate in them the concept of gratitude by always showing them those children who are less fortunate than them.

We tend to forget that happiness doesn't come as a result of getting something we don't have, but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have.

 

There can be no better example of contentment than in the lives of the Prophet Sallallaahu Alaihi Wa sallam and the early Muslims. The story is told of the time Prophet Muhammed Sallallaahu Alaihi Wa Sallam saw his beloved daughter Faatima Zahra Radiyallaahu Anhaa wearing a dress made of camel hair. Although tears welled in his eyes at the sight, he is reported to have told her, "O Faatima, today endure the hardships and poverty of this world with patience so that you may acquire the comfort of Paradise tomorrow on the Day of Judgment."

On another occasion, Umar bin Khattab saw the simple life of the Prophet Sallallaahu Alaihi Wa Sallam and said: O Messenger of Allah! While kings sleep in soft, feather beds, you are lying on a rough mat. You are the Messenger of Allah Ta’ala and thereby deserve more than any other people to live an easy life. The Prophet Sallallaahu Alaihi Wa Sallam replied: O Umar! Do you not agree that the luxuries of the world should be theirs but those of the hereafter ours? (Bukhari) There can be no doubt that our beloved Prophet Sallallaahu Alaihi Wa sallam and our pious predecessors - some of the greatest heroes of Islam - lived very simple lives with contentment. This was indeed true piety!

Practical Suggestions in Developing Contentment

The following are some principles that, if remembered, will help us develop this type of contentment in our own lives.

  • As previously mentioned, we should look at the people who have less than us, not those who have more.
  • When purchasing something, we should consider if it serves the purpose more than   how glamorous or prestigious it is.
  • We should feel empathy for the poor and know that they have rights on our excess money.
  • We should look at what we already have and be grateful to Allah Ta’ala.

Many people possess the material goods of the world and are not happy. In fact, they are often the most miserable people. With everything they have, they still feel they want more. This unfilled desire, along with the constant nagging in their heart for more, makes them unhappy. Those who have little but feel no need for more do not experience this nagging in their heart. They can relax and find peace. Indeed, the richest person is not the one who has the most, but the one who is content with what he has.

The Prophet Sallallaahu Alaihi Wa Sallam is reported to have said: “Be content with what you have and you will live like a king.”

Riches does not mean having a great amount of property; real wealth is self-contentment.

 

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