I have learnt…
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I have learnt…

There is no greater teacher than life itself. Through my life, so far, I have learnt…

That no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back. As long as it is only Allah Ta’ala’s pleasure that I want, I will continue to care no matter what happens.

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That it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it therefore I would never put myself in situations which would jeopardise the trust I’ve earned over the years.

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That no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that for in life those who are closest to you usually hurt you the most.

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That it’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts most. It is for this reason that we need to value people more than we value material things.

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That you should never ruin an apology with an excuse. Say sorry and stop right there!

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That you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you’d better know something that can sustain what you’ve just started.

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That you shouldn’t compare yourself to the best others can do. You have your own set of strengths. It doesn’t mean that you are weak if you cannot do what they do.

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That you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life. This is why it is crucially important to journey through life with great caution. For yourself as well as for those around you.

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That it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be. It is a lifetime effort which needs to be maintained all the time.

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That you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them. Should this be your last meeting you will not have any regrets.

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That ultimately we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel and who we choose to blame for our plights in life.

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That either you control your attitude or it controls you. We are the architects of our own destinies.

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That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re down will be the ones to help you get back up. So never judge someone by face value.

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That in life the only time you are allowed to look down upon someone is when you are picking them up.

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That sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn’t give me the right to be cruel.

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That just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have. The issue is about your expectations from them.

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That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had and what you’ve learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.

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That your family won’t always be there for you. As hard as it may be to digest, but people you aren’t related to can take better care of you and love you than your own flesh and blood.

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That it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you need to learn to forgive yourself first.

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That no matter how bad your heart is broken or how devastated you are, the world doesn’t stop for your grief. Only Allah Ta’ala does so!

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That our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

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That a rich person is not the one who has the most, but is one who needs the least.

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That just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other. And just because they don’t argue, it doesn’t mean they do.

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That we don’t have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

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That two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different. Sometimes it’s beneficial to look at things from the others perspective.

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That it’s hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people’s feelings, and standing up for what you believe but it has to be done.

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That people will forget what you said, and people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.

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